I can love you like that . . . .

hMmm...tonight i felt like blogging. It has been quite sometime I've not blog and most my friends have been complaining over it that "Alby, why don't you update your blog anymore?" So, pal, I've something to write out tonight. Hope it don't bored you people...

Life is always full with obstacles. Everyday in life, there may either ups or downs occuring. Some says, why not let the day pass with a joy even if you're unhappy, some says, why should I let go and don't bother what's happening when I'm unhappy with what happened? I agreed with both side as usual, I always have support on both sides in any matter. Let me relieve something tonight, I've a friend, a very close friend who I knew him from the day i was born till today. We're known as best buddies in everyone's perception. We shared everything no matter it's happy or unhappy. When he has problem, he'll make me the first to be his listener and when he's very excited with something, he'll also make me the first to be his listener to share the joy together.

Until today, we're still known as best buddies. In the almost mid of 2oo6, he met a gal. He told me that the gal adore him very much and shared as much as how we share our happiness and unhappiness. Besides that, they even talked on the phone and text each other almost everyday. Then, from there onwards, their love feelings started growing and develop. Minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day when it passes, they've became even closer. Till the day they first met, they begin to have a good feelings for each other. He told me that they've chatted alot eventhough it only took them 2-3hours to meet up. Then, that's where all started. Till today, they've been together for almost 7months sooni reckon if im not mistaken. He told me alot of things about him and her as time goes by.

There lots of things which they've encountered within this 7months time. Happy and unhappy are uncountable. Arguments often occur during their meeting no matter it's short or long, but he still never think of giving up on her before because he knows she's the one and she is the one who has been supporting him, making him happy! What's not likely to hear is that, she isn't local. She's from an outer state. She use to go back to her hometown before started with him, but ever since they started, she began to go back lesser because she wanted spend more time with him. Also sad to say that, one moment, she felt sick terribly and coincidence she was on her long summer break. Her parents dropped by and pick her back to her origin.

My best buddy was so upset when he knew that she is so sick! One thing which made them quite difficult to be together is that they were hiding their status as a couple from both their parents as well as their friends (maybe not to some close friends of them). Therefore, she went back for almost a month and lots of things has changed since by then. My buddy misses her very much, and he even planned to go for holiday with her and friends during Xmas. I've seen their picture, they're very happy! Another problem which they encounter was that the gal will have to leaveto study abroad soon. Well, ok it's in 2oo8, but time passes very fast. We never know how fast the time pass when they day comes. Her parents and godparents agreed to send her to Australia at the beginning. Then, recently i heard from my buddy that her parents and godparents changes their mind to send him to Canada, a way much further place than Australia. One year, is not too long nor too short, but it's way much further than before now, and the distance between them separating is even further. He has been telling me this when he was together with her for the first few months until today. He even tears while telling me about it that how much he misses her and et cetera.

I can see how much he loves her. He told me that she will just let them to decide where to send her to. My buddy was extremely upset that why cant she suggest she wanted nearer and make any relevant excuses that she wanted a nearer location so that they don't need to be separated that far apart. He is very upset with it. Even if he tears in front of his friends or anyone, he still say the sweet words and the courage words, agreeing in what ever she said. I can sense how suffering is he when each time he replied her message when he knew that she said she don't want to comment anything about it and let them decide. As his bestest buddy in his life, I felt very upset for him too. My feelings is being touched by the way he expressed his feelings for her, but she don't seems responding in a way she felt the same as him. He's worried...he's sad...he's very upset and also undecided...

I saw him talking to her on the phone earlier, regarding of this case where she told him that they have calculated the expenditure compare to Australia, Canada would be cheaper by an amount. His eyes turned red and the tears from his eye just flow smoothly while telling her that he's fine and he's glad that she could go Canada to further her studies. He's in pain, me as his best buddy who always there to help him whenever he has problem couldn't help me him this time. I know how much he loved her and what he wanted to say to her, but things just don't seems like what is expected of him. He layed on my shoulder and tears in his room...

Many things would change within a year, especially in love relationship, I'm sure if one really love another, no matter where he/she goes, they'll always love each other. I know what kind of person my buddy is and I'm sure he is willing to wait for her and stay single with restrictions in his life within the period she won't be here and wait for her to come back to get back together...

All the best to you buddy, I'm very upset for you and heartache seeing you like that but hope she could make a better and wiser choice later on and best wishes that you could receive a good news soon too!~

I'm touched and I'm also upset for him, I hope to whomever who read what i posted tonight, think twice before making a decision which could make your other half (if there is) happier and not upset till he/she suffers like how my friend does for his love ones...and to whomever who is celebrating Valentine's this year, Happy Valentine's Day and hope you people out there enjoy yourself with your love ones too...

I gotta face for my Level 1, first semester's final exam later onwards till friday! Wish me luck guys/gals!~ Happy Chinese New Year to everyone too and drive safely during the festive seasons too. I don't hope that the rate of accidents occur increase again this year in 2oo7. Here's a song for you buddy...hope you like it!
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I specially dedicate this song to you...
The song is "I Can Love You Like That", originally sang by "All 4 One"...

They read you Cinderella
You hoped it would come true
That one day your prince charming
Would come rescue you
You like romantic movies
And you never will forget
The way it felt when Romeo kissed Juliet

And all this time that you've been waiting
You don't have to wait no more

[1:]
I can love you like that
I would make you my world
Move heaven and earth if you were my girl
I would give you my heart
Be all that you need
Show you you're everything
That's precious to me
If you give me a chance
I can love you like that

I'd love you like that
I could love you like that

I never make a promise that
I don't intend to keep
So when I say forever,
Forever's what I mean
Well, I'm no Casanova but
I swear this much is true
I'll be holding nothing back
When it comes to you

You dream of love that's everlasting
Well, baby open up your eyes
[repeat 1]

If you want tenderness, I've got tenderness
And I see through to the heart of you
If you want a man, who will understand
You don't have to look very far

I can love you, I can love you, love you
[repeat 1]
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-[aLbY]-